So many of us have lived our lives placing unmerited value on the opinions of others while discrediting our personal truth and reality. Breaking the shackles of people-pleasing requires honest self-appraisal, a healthy dose of self-esteem, and an enormous commitment to self-realization.
Is covid-19 just a warm-up, a practice session for the inhabitants of earth when the gathering global warming and climate change wreak havoc on our weather patterns, our agriculture system, our social connections, our employment, our financial security, our ability to survive in a hostile environment?
If so, if this is a test, how are we doing? I personally am dealing with social distancing rather handily since I am by nature an introvert and a non-engager. I enjoy solitude and the absence of people. I enjoy hours ‘piddling’ in my garden, reading a book, watching cooking videos on YouTube, walking in the woods, hanging out with Max, the cat. I am not bothered by the lack of social interaction mandated by covid-19.
But, how are you doing? Cinemas have closed their doors, restaurants are no longer serving sit-down meals inside, churches have cancelled Sunday services, schools are shut down, grocery stores are experiencing shortages (who’d have thought toilet paper), bars are closed, and we are all supposed to maintain 6 feet between us and the people nearby. How are you handling this?
Should we take our lesson from our government leaders playing the blame game while promising free money to its citizens, looking for the most advantageous political maneuver in an election year? Should we listen to the conspiracy pundits telling us this is a foreign government’s plot to overtake the financial markets and impose world-wide hardships on the free world? Should we believe that covid-19 was unleashed on an unsuspecting world by a mad scientist?
Really, how are you dealing with this? Where do you go for comfort? If this virus called covid-19 is just the tip of a catastrophic iceberg, will we survive as a worldwide brotherhood sustaining and comforting one another, or will we (as the dooms day prognosticators tell us) slide into world-wide anarchy, violence, and destruction?
I don’t write about my faith very much anymore because most people don’t want to hear it. But this is my blog, I pay for it and should anyone object to the mention of God or faith or belief, or all three in one sentence….well, there are probably a million other blog sites online suitable to their journey in life.
The following verses taken from the writings given to us in Psalms from ancient Judaic wisdom and faith say this:
“God is our refuge and strength, an ever-present help in trouble. Therefore, we will not fear, though the earth give way and the mountains fall into the heart of the sea, though its waters roar and foam and the mountains quake in their surging…..
He makes wars cease to the ends of the earth; he breaks the bow and shatters the spear, he burns the shields with fire…..
Be still, and know that I am God; I will be exalted among the nations, I will be exalted in the earth.” PSALM 46
For further thought and meditation refer to the writing of Richard Rohr at CAC.ORG https://cac.org/love-alone-overcomes-fear-2020-03-19/
“Right now I’m trying to take in psychologically, spiritually, and personally, what is God trying to say? When I use that phrase, I’m not saying that God causes suffering to teach us good things. But God does use everything, and if God wanted us to experience global solidarity, I can’t think of a better way. We all have access to this suffering, and it bypasses race, gender, religion, and nation.
We are in the midst of a highly teachable moment. There’s no doubt that this period will be referred to for the rest of our lifetimes. We have a chance to go deep, and to go broad. Globally, we’re in this together. Depth is being forced on us by great suffering, which as I like to say, always leads to great love.” FR. RICHARD ROHR
I AM LARRY – worthy, unique, loved
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I have my moments of fear and anxiety, and guilt because no matter how we handle it, we think we’re doing it wrong (as so many are willing to tell us and so many are looking to place the blame somewhere, anywhere..) But then I remember that humans have endured hard times before and will endure hard times again, and the fear goes away. I hope I don’t get this virus and that my loved ones don’t get it, but we might. I also might get cancer or have a heart attack. I choose not to live in fear, just take care of myself as best I can, help others whenever I can, and remember that at some point, this will all be over. (As for our politicians, this is reminder why I’m not a fan of either party….)
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Good insight, Ann. What is happening now is just a blip on the radar screen of human history. We can choose to live with fear or courage, with hope or despair, with joy or sadness. It’s our choice. And I agree about political parties. While I support a political philosophy that upholds the worth of all humanity and all of ecology, I think our system has missed the mark drastically. Thanks for visiting💖
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If you ever need cheering up about this situation, then visit the blog called White Hair Grace. She wrote a great post about it that puts things into perspective, or at least it did for me!
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