So many of us have lived our lives placing unmerited value on the opinions of others while discrediting our personal truth and reality. Breaking the shackles of people-pleasing requires honest self-appraisal, a healthy dose of self-esteem, and an enormous commitment to self-realization.
It was 1968. Lyndon Johnson had won easily in the 1964 Presidential election after finishing the term of President Kennedy who was assassinated in November of 1963. But the political scene took a few nasty turns and in March of 1968 Johnson decided to drop out of the race.
Many Americans were disgusted with the Vietnam War, the blacks were disenchanted with the Civil Rights Act, the corruption of DC politicians became fodder for the frenzied press. Brave, young warriors, disproportionately African-American, were coming home in flag draped coffins to an angry and unsettled America. Those who survived the horrors of Vietnam often came home to chants of “baby killers” and were spat upon at the airports.
For many years thereafter, veterans responsibly assured future military warriors and heroes that this display of cowardice and disrespect toward service men and women would never, ever happen again in the United States of America. If nothing else, the dignity of military service would be honored and respected regardless of political alignment or social status. It had nothing to do with flags, parades, or memorial services. It was simply a matter of revering the sacrifices of all who served their country whether in war times or peace.
During the 2016 campaign for President, the Republican Party hosted a wide array of worthy and qualified contenders for the party’s nomination. One of them was Senator John McCain, a Vietnam War hero who was captured and subsequently spent five years in a POW camp suffering torture at the hands of his captors resulting in permanent physical disability. Yet his documented valor in the line of duty was discredited by a man who had spent his war years in NYC “fighting off STDs” in a period of time which he termed as “my personal Vietnam.” Trump referred to Senator McCain as a “loser for getting himself captured, not really a war hero.” The 4 time draft-dodger went on to win the Republican nomination.
Enter Tucker Carlson of Fox News, a champion of the current POTUS and outspoken critic of anything or anyone not clad in the American flag and the traditional red MAGA cap. Like his WH master and trainer, Carlson has not one day of military experience nor public service. Yet, the self-proclaimed guru of patriotism has leveled a stream of negative invective against Senator Tammy Duckworth who had both her legs blown off while serving her country in combat in Iraq.
On Tuesday, Carlson called Duckworth, who is being vetted as Joe Biden’s possible running mate, a “moron,” a “coward,” and a “fraud.” He also called on those who love America to defend “our nation and our heritage and our culture” against Duckworth, Minnesota representative Ilhan Omar, and those like them.
During an online fundraiser Tuesday, Biden said the attacks on Duckworth were “disgusting, sickening,” and a “reflection of the depravity of what’s going on in the White House right now.”
The depravity of which Joe Biden speaks is rampant not only in the White House. It is a contagion infecting the soul of America, it is as deadly as covid-19 and it is spearheaded by men like Tucker Carlson and Donald Trump. Having never stood shoulder to shoulder with others in military uniform, having never spent a day in service to this country, having never fought in combat and severely injured, having never seen the inside of a POW camp, how dare you, Tucker Carlson and Donald Trump question the patriotism of those who served with honor and valor? ‘Loser, moron, coward, fraud’ – the words are applicable, but being applied to the wrong set of characters in this sad episode of American history.