A few days ago I pondered “why am I here?” Today, it’s your turn. Why are you here? Are you living your life, your dreams, your hopes? If not, why? Jobs, finances, family responsibilities, social commitments, civic duties? Self-doubt maybe?
“Heck, Larry, I couldn’t do what I want or dream about. That would be too selfish.”
I understand what you are saying. The kids need me to guide them through the teenaged years. The boss cannot get along without me today. The government will go to hell in a hand basket if I don’t keep on top of things. My community will lose its appeal and attraction unless I attend and contribute to its civic meetings. And Lord knows my spouse cannot get along without me. I am so necessary in every thing – except my own life.
Here’s some advice from an old codger who’s been around the block a few times. Live your life as if you are important, follow your dreams, develop your creative skills, love yourself like no other could love you. And guess what? Your world will swoon in your presence, people will gravitate to you because “you have it all together”, your face will radiate with the joy happening within. You will finally be the you which the Lord of your life intended. Simple to understand, but difficult to practice. This is not narcissism; rather it is pursuing the enlightened existence for which we were created.
“This above all: to thine own self be true. And it must follow, as the night the day, Thou canst not then be false to any man.” SHAKESPEARE
4 Replies to “why are you here?”
Definitely, although the Princess considers me her penance 😂 You really don’t want to be laid on your death bed wishing you had done something that you didn’t do. Great post 😉
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Appreciate the visit and comment
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I don’t know. Larry. No matter how much I follow my dreams, develop my creativity, and love myself, my cat still treats me like the hired help. The closest she comes to swooning in my presence is turning her head to look at me briefly before going back to sleep … and, she only gravitates to me when she’s hungry, thirsty or bored. 🙄 🤣
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LOL. Cats are like that, aren’t they? A running joke in my house – dogs have masters, but cats have staff. In truth the swooning and gravitating are often my imagination running away with me.😁 Thanks for the visit, Terry.