So many of us have lived our lives placing unmerited value on the opinions of others while discrediting our personal truth and reality. Breaking the shackles of people-pleasing requires honest self-appraisal, a healthy dose of self-esteem, and an enormous commitment to self-realization.
Yes, I purposely dated this for a year from now, March 7, 2021. Should the good Lord give me another year to live on this earth, what and who could I be 365 days into the future? Will I wake up in the same house, will Max (the cat) still be sleeping by my side, will my 1996 Chevy pickup truck still be roadworthy, will my arthritis pain continue to hobble me through the day, will I be anticipating another garden down by the water? I don’t know the future, but I certainly don’t want to be the same man that I am today. That would mean that I have not grown, that life has stagnated.
Granted, those of us in recovery from addictions spend far too much time regretting our pasts and worrying about our futures. Although our step programs teach us how to navigate the treacherous waters of regret and worry, if we do not spend present moments growing into the man/woman we want to be, if we don’t chase after the healthier and happier image that is available, we do not grow. We will remain stagnant in the muck of a tedious and mediocre life.
Do something today that forges the person you want to be. Get the day started with appreciation for blessings undeserved, for a life free of addictions, and for opportunities to love and be loved. Let’s look outside our windows, beyond our comfort zones, past our noses to the me and you that our Higher Power intended for us. That Creator did not make a mistake. We were intended from conception to make a difference in the world. So, let’s get out there and make the next 365 days spectacular one moment, one day at a time.
SOBER TODAY? GIVE YOURSELF A HAND
I AM LARRY – worthy, unique, loved